our first chat. . .

So you meet- you and and new friend.  Right away you know you have something in common. Weather she is 20 or 200 pounds overweight, you know her.  You gravitate to the Chubby Buddy like an orbiting satellite caught in the gravity of it's closest planet.  This is your kin.  

We've done this- when we find ourselves in a group setting not knowing anyone, chubbies like chubbies., birds of a feather, like minds etc.  You can see evidence of this everywhere.  Just look around, at restaurants, shopping malls, playgrounds- the chubbies hang with chubbies, skinny with skinny. And NO they aren't all relatives.  These are groups of friends who have found one another because of their size.

Now here's the difference between a Skinny and a Chubby reading the above.  The Skinny thinks these gals are friends because of lifestyle choices, insecurities, financial status, ambition, appearance conscienceness, lack of wanting to exercise, or whatever.

The Chubby knows this- Chubbies aren't all created equal.